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The Pride of the Church (I of II)

September 24, 2013 by  
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The Pride of the Church (Part I of II)

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The Secret Diary of Elisabeth Leseur (Week 9 of 12)

Apart from personal pride, we have the pride of faith, the most perfidious of all. We complacently scorn those of different belief and think ourselves hardly obliged to extend our charity to them. We consider that Jews, Protestants, or atheists are hardly our brothers in the true sense of that word, brothers who are deeply loved, who deserve our self-sacrifice, and upon whom we are obligated to bestow a respectful esteem.

In regard to such as these, we seem to think anything is allowed, even calumny sometimes, and we seem less concerned with convincing them than offending them. The gentle words of Jesus, and of St. Paul, too, declare that in the future there will be neither Jews nor Gentiles; all that is forgotten. Let those who have engraved upon their hearts the great doctrine of love learn at least to practice it on all their brothers, whoever they may be. Weak and lowly as I am, I will never cease to protest against fanaticism and to proclaim to all Jesus’ law of love. – The Secret Diary of Elisabeth Leseur, p. 151 (Daily Thoughts: 1899-1906, Entry Number Seven)

Having recently joined a new parish after moving across the Midwest, I thought the best way to meet people within my new parish community was to get involved right away. My first opportunity arose after that initial Sunday Mass when Lenten prayer groups were announced – to begin the following week. I didn’t think twice before joining, and, having led a Catholic book club in my previous home, I looked forward to praying and sharing deep discussions about various traditions of the Church with new-found friends.

While I did meet some wonderful people, I learned during the first meeting that the prayer group was celebrating its eighth year as an ecumenical effort among Catholics, Presbyterians, and Methodists, hosted by our parish. We spent our entire Lent discussing a broad spectrum of topics we all shared in common. We enjoyed friendly conversations regarding Sacred Scripture and we shared much freeform prayer; but all discussions were sadly devoid of any mention of Mary, the saints, the Eucharist or Confession – topics critical to our spiritual growth.

So often conversations begged for a mention of some great Catholic tradition. But try as I might, those subjects were unwanted, even among other Catholics in the group – this was to be a friendly discussion group, focusing only on those things we shared in common. While I enjoyed meeting new people, as time stretched on into Holy Week, I felt I had been placed in the very awkward position of opening my Home to all the neighbors, while keeping my “controversial” family bound and gagged in the attic.

Unfortunately, I don’t think the above situation is unique to one parish. Rather, it’s endemic of the entire Church.  In fact, I’m going to go out on a limb here and argue that we no longer suffer from the pride of faith that Elisabeth rebuffs. I believe we suffer from a LACK of pride in our Faith. Not the bad kind of pride – that we can do without. But we are seriously lacking in good pride. The kind of pride you would take in your country, your home or your family. A pride that speaks to family IDENTITY.

Over the past several decades, ecumenism has spread like wildfire within the Church. While some great things have come from that effort, Catholic identity has been severely damaged in the process. In many parishes I’ve attended, I could almost hear Kumbaya playing quietly in the background, as parishioners swayed to and fro, with all the accouterments surrounding Mass seeming almost Protestant in nature (not that there’s anything wrong with Protestant services – but there’s great beauty and purpose in traditional Catholic music, art and reverence).

In all my years as a Catholic, I’ve witnessed very little snubbing of other religions. Most people with whom I’ve come in contact believe that religious affiliation does not matter, as long as you are a “good person.”

Of course, it’s all part of a greater societal trend – that of universal relativism. What’s good for me is good for me; what’s good for you is good for you. There is no truth, and therefore, there is no TRUE religion.

Since there is no TRUE Religion, being Catholic becomes merely one social choice among many, akin to choosing a restaurant based on nothing more than personal preferences in taste. That said, various traditions within the Faith are, of course, optional as well. Whether I choose to be pro-choice or pro-life, to be sexually active outside of marriage or to remain chaste, to watch pro-football or attend Mass on Sunday – these are decisions I’m free to make because my religion is a Social Decision, as opposed to one based on TRUTH.

I don’t think this is quite the alternative Elisabeth had in mind.

As I mentioned in a previous post, this mindset has led to a mass exodus from the Church. And what do we have left? A significant portion of those who remain, are not “all in.” They are Catholic because they feel comfortable in the Church. It’s not a matter of devotion, rather, it's a matter of social identity.

Yes, we’ve strayed a long way from pride of faith.

Slowly but surely, this problem is being addressed by the New Evangelization. Unfortunately, I think it has created a new problem within the Church.

In our efforts to reestablish our Catholic identity, many of us suffer from another kind of pride. The Pride of Orthodoxy, which I’ll address in next week’s post.

Reading Assignment:

Week 10: A Call to the Interior Life – End of Litany to Obtain a Conversion (p. 189-208)


Discussion Questions:

1. Have you experienced pride of faith, or lack thereof in others? Or have you found yourself guilty of either? How have you sought to counter the experience?

2. Feel free to comment on anything from this past week!


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About Vicki Burbach

Vicki Burbach is a wife and homeschooling mother of six children ages four to sixteen years who relishes the calm inspiration of spiritual reading amidst the roller coaster of life. A passionate convert to the Faith, Vicki is an avid reader who started the book club so she could embark with like-minded bibliophiles on a spiritual journey through some of the greatest Catholic books ever written. She is author of the new book How to Read Your Way to Heaven - A Spiritual Reading Program for the Worst of Sinners, the Greatest of Saints, and Everyone in Between. You can also find her at

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